Marriage is hard. No doubt about it. I'm not an expert. Way far from it. But I know that much: Is not easy. It takes a lot of effor from you, also patience, maturity, comunication, juggling, flexibility, yoga, breathing habilities and firefighting technices. You'll need to be kind, helpful, caring, understanding and loving. Also have a good sense of humor, be independent, trustworthy and honest. Respect & support your partner, show compassion, openness, kindness, faith, sensitivity, tolerance, generosity, have Fun and be realistic. To be committed in a marriage, 1st you need to choose the right person, listen to one another, be willing to say "I'm sorry", be willing to forgive and to let go, to think twice before you speak and consider always your partner's feelings. But something I'm certain about is that: Is not easy... but it's worth it.